Arnelle Strand, P.A.

Separation is an alternative for persons who are uncertain as to whether or not they want a divorce.   Separation may be either on a formal or informal basis, and it may be for a definite or indefinite period of time.  Separation requires no legal formality.

Florida does not require a period of separation before filing for divorce.  If the parties desire, however, separate maintenance proceedings can be instituted in the family court.  This formal procedure is rarely implemented except in certain situations in which divorce is an unacceptable alternative.   Informal separation provides the parties with an opportunity to find out what living apart is like and whether or not the differences between them can be resolved.

If there are serious questions about whether or not to get divorced and both parties can be trusted to behave reasonably during the separation, we recommend informal separation as a way to resolve uncertainty.   We also recommend marital counseling, either together with separation or otherwise, as an alternative way of resolving an uncertain situation.